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		<title>A summary of my book, Roughneck.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Chapter 6 Roughneck
 
     One day a year, we got to spend the whole day with Daddy. Slumber J Oil Company threw a big cookout in a wooded park, the annual picnic for the roughnecks. And although Daddy cursed the big company for throwing such crumbs to the men with no raises, Marilyn, Jimmy, and I went with Daddy, anticipating it each year.
     At the outset, I was animated, jumping into the car beside Daddy for the start of our day.  Marilyn, 'got it' before I did and stopped going eventually. But, it never occurred to me there was a big disconnect in what I was imagining as lots of fun and the reality of what actually happened, the effects of the beer inevitably pushing its way to the forefront before the day was over.
     By the time we got to the site, huge grills were filled with plump ribs being mopped with barbecue sauce, along with all the hamburgers and hot dogs we could eat, topped off with strawberry short cake.  After playing games all afternoon, we would eat another meal before heading home.  The men didn't have to dash for the free beer iced down in the giant tin tubs; there was enough for all the heavy drinkers for the whole day.
     The little bit of boxing skill Daddy acquired in 9th grade ultimately resurfaced in his soaked brain every year before the picnic was over.  Wanting a contest, he would start talking some shit to the biggest roughneck there, bulldozing him into a little "friendly" boxing match, daring him like a child, calling the man a coward, a coward with a yellow streak down his back, if he hesitated.
     I begged my daddy not to fight, appealing to his sense of responsibility.  He had to get us home.  As soon as the circle gathered around the two men and the yelling started, Gogogogogogogogogogogogogo.
oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. 
    "Knock the shit out of him, Jim."
    "Robert, aw, he's a pretty boy; got a yellow streak down his back a mile long."
    "Give him that left, Jim.  He'll shut up talking his shit."
    "Let's see your money on your boy!"
     I ran to the car holding my hands tightly over my ears until it got quiet again and I knew someone had lost.  It is a real possibility that daddy will get killed and we'll have no way to get home. I never thought that my daddy might kill somebody.
     Tearing off their shirts in front of the crowd, the men would begin punching just in good fun--until one of them landed a solid blow.  Then their faces turned red, eyes got sharp and the dog cursing and threats started in earnest.  "I'll tear your head off, you son-of-a bitch."  When my daddy harnessed that rage in his gut, he was hard to beat and just the size of his fists gave him an edge, along with his dangerous left jab.
     At this point the shouts grew louder and money was thrown into the middle of the circle until one man fell, red blotches over his face and chest, a red stream of bright blood running out of his nose; he had to be carried off sometime for more than a few stitches.  Daddy wouldn't stop pounding the man until he was helpless if he was winning.  I hated my daddy at this moment when he fought. I wished that I was strong enought to beat him up for being so mean. But, I was not stupid enough to pick a fight with my daddy like that man in the circle who would probabaly live to regret it.
     My job was to stay awake on the way home and watch the center line.  When I got old enough, I steered. 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;">Summary of Roughneck:</p>
<p>     Not only was my father&#8217;s occupation dangerous, some might say foolhardy, but his life was as well.  Alcohol was not always the stimulus, but played a role.  But what about me?  Have I always done the safe thing?  Unlike my siblings, I have swung precariously between the safe and the dangerous most of my life, somewhat like the roughneck in an oil derrick. </p>
<p>     At three I was kidnapped in the middle of the night and taken from Cincinnati, Ohio, to my new home in Del City, Louisiana, to be raised by my father and his parents.  This was after my mother had been hospitalized twice for mental illness and alcoholism.</p>
<p>     Even though my daddy was compelling figure, the story is about me and my sometimes sad, but more often humorous life growing up in the South.  I had a taste for danger and chose the unkown in favor of the safe and boring.  The reader may find I carry on the roughneck tradition.  Let the lives I describe speak for themselves. </p>
<p>     A good father at times, yet continuing to create mayhem and even commit murder, why did my father never change? <br />
After the pain and violence that my parents experienced, much of it pouring over to me and my siblings, was I going to be able to curb my inclinations?</p>
<p>     With two poor role models, a super irresponsible father and a super religious grandfather, I had a difficult, even dangerous journey, trying to find love.  Coming face to face with sex addiction, domestic abuse and manic depression made me wonder if being a roughneck was inherited, if I was destined to end my life in the same sad way that my father ended his.</p>
<p>The book will be coming out Christmas 2010.</p>
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